“Self-Love” and “Self-Compassion” Are Obnoxious

But they’re also necessary.

Jeff Valdivia
Curious
Published in
5 min readJan 7, 2021

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Does the thought of loving yourself make your skin crawl? Does the idea of having compassion for yourself sound weak and pathetic?

If it does, you’re not alone. Being uncomfortable with self-love and self-compassion seems to be the default for humans.

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Jeff Valdivia
Curious

Following my curiosity and hoping it will lead me to wisdom. I write about psychology, meditation, self-development, and spirituality.